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Positively Positive!

2012-05-07T19:02:57Z

Hi there Gentle Reader,

Oooh the sunshine is LOVE-R-LY even if the temperatures are still a bit chilly! Treats today include lemon cranberry mini muffins and cinnamon lattes (lite of course!).

I'd like to chat about those big BIG dreams that are on your Tah-Dah! list that sometimes (Um...SOMETIMES Linda??) seem overwhelming. It's one thing to write "Complete Art Degree" and then feel like you're a million steps from doing so. Please remember that every day that you accomplish even a wee bit of the list is a good one! The very best BIG plans are made up of many little ones. Like a colourful jigsaw puzzle of an English meadow, every piece of flower will slowly make the landscape. The picture may seem abstract at first but it will eventually become clear.

Some of those smaller steps won't seem so bright and shiny either. Those are the ones that we tend to dread the most - making that first phonical to a potential employer or submitting that application to join your local theatre group. All necessary in order to achieve your BEST dream. Balance is everything.

I find it always good to match up a positive with a not-so-positive task. A reward system where you actually get two items for the price of one. Ya gotta love that idea!

For example you need to weed out your book collection but it seems like an never-ending chore. Promise yourself the treat of one new book for every shelf you reorganize. That of course means at least one book goes to another home - to a buddy, your local library, or even your laundry room. I have donated many books to the library and if I ever miss reading them, I just have to get out my library card. The ultimate organized bookshelf in my eyes.

For your YOUwork (sounds jazzier than home...), I want you to select one big dream and then add two baby steps underneath - one has to be something you really REALLY don't want to do and the other one can be fun and happy!

Keeping it positive add light to your journey making it that much brighter.

Linda

What The World Needs Now is YOU!

2012-04-05T01:13:19Z

Hello hello hello Gentle Reader,

Welcome to "some-kind-of-season-goes-here"! Sunny today and lovely temps so all is good. How about a vanilla latte with a few cinnamon hearts sprinkled on top. Yeah, nice huh? The lemon cranberry loaf is still warm too. Enjoy!

Today's chat is about YOU becoming more involved in YOU. It is very easy for us to get caught up in the bright shiny world (I'm thinking more virtual planet actually) by clicking on LIKE on Facebook causes or sharing articles and videos - all fine and dandy but I'm more interested in what YOU did for YOU today. There is always something goin' on out there. This time we need to focus on what is in HERE.

Ok, GR, time to get out that Tah-Dah list and review those baby steps towards reaching your dreams. I'm a Facebook fanatic like the next monkey but lately I have been investing time in myself too. Nothing like reviewing your journal (my latest one has all the Pantone colours listed on the cover!) and feeling a sense of accomplishment at all the tasks completed so far. Some are still pending and a few others are hibernating (yeah that's it, hibernating!). Time to wake 'em up!

Since we're in Spring mode now, it's a fabulous time to work on a new series of projects. A great variety of goals from all areas of your life - mind, body, and soul! I also love supporting creative pals too by attending their shows, promoting (and purchasing) their art, and making sure that they get their creativity out into the universe. The world needs your authentic voice more than ever! So much of reality in media is really not - how refreshing to have individuals making the planet a more beautiful place to be.

So homework my dear GR, I want you start giving as much time to you and your goals as you do to watching others achieve their dreams. Whether it is working on your music career, some health goals, or writing a poem that makes others smile, I want YOU to do this for YOU because we all need YOU! Makes sense? Groovy.

Until next time!

Linda

Sunnyside UP!

2012-03-30T11:36:23Z

Hello there Gentle Reader,

Where did summer...I mean SPRING go????!! Winter is back today with...dare I say it....S*N*O*W...heading our way this weekend. Last weekend, I would have offered you a chilled glass of lemonade and a gingerbread biscotti. Today - perhaps a hot chocolate with extra sprinkles and a sugar cookie. Boots and coat standing by!

So GR, how is your Tah-Dah list coming along? Adding those fun and fab dreams to your list (in pen or pencil OR crayon of course!)? I'm a big techy-fan like the next iMonkey but I always believe you connect more with your own true self on paper with pen. Call me Jurassic but it does work well. We're so used to typing and texting our thoughts over and over that many times we can miss the meaning in what we're saying (if that makes sense!). Ever had Auto-Correct decide what you're REALLY saying? I rest my case.

I recently was given the gift of a portrait lens for my camera. I had one a couple of years ago but it seems kittens LOVE LOVE LOVE camera lens. Love them to pieces - literally! So fast forward to last month when a pal gave me a new one. I have been neglecting my photography lately and one reason is that I wanted the new lens. Now I have it so "Visit Queen West to take urban photos" has been written down. Along with "Go to Allen Garden's to take macro photos of flowers". Two new assignments!

We ALL need the bright shiny happy goals mixed in with the more practical not-so-jazzy ones. Like adding extra spices to your favourite veggie soup. It's great on it's own but YOWSA when you add those chili peppers! For the record YOWSA is 13 points in Lexulous though I'm not absolutely sure it's a word - except in my world of course!

As an added bonus, the sparkly items on your Tah-Dah list will actually add energy and life to your other every day tasks. Taking your winter sweaters to the dry cleaners is rather matter-of-fact BUT if you add "take clothes to dry cleaners" along side "try two new flavours of coffee beans this week and buy a new tangerine mug" has more pizzazz (seriously pizzazz is 159 points on a triple word - if you COULD get 4 z's at once mind you!)

So for your homework (trust me, you don't wanna go out there in this cold!), I would like you to write down 3 regular tasks to accomplish and alternate them with ones that make your heart skip a beat! The ones that you can't wait to tell your BFF about but you have to text it because you keep giggling.

Until next time, keep planning those huge spectacular adventures!

Linda

Wiggle Room

2012-03-19T17:14:42Z

Hi there Gentle Reader,

How have you been? Wonderful I hope! I've been adding many ideas to my Tah-Dah list AND crossing off a bunch too. Fun!! On Saturday we donated 3 bags of clothes to the local Goodwill - the ultimate win-win for so many reasons. Then picked up some great books while there. I heart Goodwill.

Today I want to chat about "wiggle room" - that lovely and practical cushion of time when planning a project. We all need this extra bit of breathing space when it comes to organizing our lives because we're not the only ones in them! You really wanted to paint your desk on your balcony but the weather had other plans and it rained for 24 hours straight. So you had to bump it to the following Saturday because you promised your BFF that you would help her reorganize her clothes closet. My mantra is "plans with people before things" so you should never cancel something with a friend to accommodate having to work on a "thing". Life is all about sharing experiences with others (humans and our four-legged buddies too) and less about actual items in our worlds. The "things" in your life aren't going to be hanging out with you any time soon and certainly won't be wishing you a happy birthday on your special day (and if they DO that's a whole other topic AND an A&E reality series!)

Now it's great to add wiggle room but not too much. You want enough space to be able to accomplish the task as close to the original date as possible. Not have enough time to have it go off your radar entirely! That's been my challenge with self-publishing a photo book on my kitty cats. Planned this over year ago (ok over a year and a half ago). However, you know me, no judgement here in the monkey's world - just support and smiles! I have all the photos, the software, and even the website where to publish. So the book is back on the list to complete by March 25th.

What is that one task on your Tah-Dah list that seems overwhelming but might feel more manageable with additional time to complete? That's the one I want you to focus on this week and plan out your steps. So GR, get out your spotlight and shine my friend, shine!

Sending out endless support to all the Toronto librarians who are on strike today. First time in 14 years. You know how much I love the library so here's hoping that talks start up again soon and all is resolved to benefit both sides.

Linda

Springing towards Spring!

2012-03-12T20:57:24Z

Howdy hey Gentle Reader,

Hope the winter weeks have been kind in your part of the planet. Crazy-great weather here in the big city. 17C yesterday which is 63F and pretty dang fine on a March 11 afternoon. Many Canadians were running around in shorts (well not THIS monkey mind you but they were out there).

Vanilla chai latte? Lite of course!

This time of year can be challenging for many despite the increase in sunshine and temperatures (see above!). After 3 months of flannels, puffy jackets, and dark chilly morning walks to work, it takes a bit of extra sparkle to feel happy-go-lucky. The couch and duvet always look so comfy-cozy!

So time to dust the snowflakes off that "Tah-Dah" list to see what adventures await you this Spring!

Ok, I'll go first since, well, um...I'm here!

Number one - early Spring cleaning and organizing - ok, it's not exactly THAT early - I mean Spring arrives on March 20 BUT I've already started to go through ALL my clothes (winter and spring) to see what can be donated and what items need to be recycled or what not. I find that my tastes are changing (again!) and I moving away from neutrals and back to more colours and textures. In an interesting way, I am becoming my art. I am also returning to my love of vintage clothes too. Kesington Market is now on my radar after many years away (beyond buying coffee and produce). Seeing space in my closet makes me smile.

Reorganizing my music, photo, and book collections too. All are being downsized quite a bit. Making more space in my home for the future. This means both actual organizing and virtual housekeeping! It's amazing how many photos you quickly save on your computer, only to find that you look at a fraction of them. Moving those to external drives. This is a fabulous way of saving money because you don't need to think of upgrading your hard drive quite yet. Kind of like dealing with your never-ending amount of stuff by contacting a storage facility. You're just buying time my friend, just.buying.time. No wonder we all love the A&E show Storage Wars! I just didn't want to be featured there - they would be SOOO disappointed. Sorry Jarrod and Brandi - no bank safes here! HA!

Planning my first big art show for this year too. Very exciting. Have two different themes in mind. I'm blessed to have many artistic and creative souls in my world so have tremendous support and encouragement. Lately I've donated my paintings to various charity auctions which makes me feel very fortunate to be able to help out. I am one lucky monkey.

So for your homework...it's ME remember...I would like you to write 3 things on your Tah-Dah list that would make you feel wonderful if you completed them this Spring. Can be absolutely anything from painting your bathroom door a vibrant tangerine or donating those old blankets and towels to your local kitty shelter. The goal here is to start with some fun things to wake up from winter hibernation and move towards the sunshine. Always good!

Until next time Gentle Reader, keep on, keeping on!

Linda

Sparkle and Shine!

2012-01-12T00:57:03Z

Hello there Gentle Reader,

January 11 and so far no snowflakes. Oh we've had a dusting or two in the city but nothing really wintery - yet! I'm ready though. I received a fabulous coat from my Love that will keep me toasty. Which reminds me, who wants cinnamon toast?! Yes, it IS all about food with me!

So far this year we've discussed getting out our fabulous journals and glitter pens. Speaking of which, you can find both on www.etsy.com where you are supporting artists and getting one-of-a-kind goodness.

The key to achieving your goals - aka REACHING YOUR DREAMS - is to make the process fun. Remember when you were a kid and got that huge box of Crayola's for your birthday? You couldn't wait to draw and colour every single wish you ever had. Well writing down your ideas should be just as enjoyable. Maybe even more so since we now live in a world where we are overwhelmed by the media - sights, sounds, and not always happy-ending stories fill each day and night. I'm telling you - a crisp bright journal and a sparkly pen can go a long way in the cheer factor. Trust me.

You should take your journal and pens with you everywhere too. Even those few minutes when you're waiting for the office coffee machine to finish brewing your first cup, you can capture a few ideas. Remember, no idea is too big or too small. Plus having creativity around can inspire you with other goals and plans. It's all good.

Today I want you to get used to taking your pen and journal out and about. The waiting room in the doctors' office or perhaps in a coffee shop for 10 minutes at lunch. These are going to be your tools of the trade! Re-reading your words can raise your spirits and let you know that it is POSSIBLE to achieve all what makes you happy in life.

Until next time, keep dreaming!

Linda

Stand Tall, Move Forward...

2012-01-10T17:20:55Z

Hello Gentle Reader,

Great to see you again. You're just in time for a snack too. Double chocolate chip cookies are just cooling now. Tea? Good. Time to chat about goals.

I was re-reading my Facebook statuses from 3 years ago (when I first joined) because of the new Timeline thingy (technical term). While I didn't actually forget that I was a member of Weight Watchers in 2009, I didn't really remember all the baby steps that it took to get to my 50 lb weight loss. I had the support of friends and family and the road was long and sometimes bumpy BUT I eventually got there and became much healthier. Dropped down 5 sizes too. That was a bonus!

Sometimes when you get all enthused about a new project or goal, you can also get that deer-in-the-headlights look (though ALL the Bambi's in my clichés make it safely back into the forest!) That scary thought of not knowing what to do next. Oh you may know WHAT you want but just not how to get it!

The key plan here is to move forward. Even if each step feels like you're going in slow-motion. Venturing ahead is better than turning around and going backwards. To that safe and cozy place but not always a fun and happy one.

Sometimes I like to accomplish a smaller task before I ramp up for the big one. Building your goal-setting muscles AND you don't even have to go to the gym! Gotta love that idea!

That Weight Watchers goal? Well truth be known (and I'm all about keeping it real, folks), is that I gained about 13 lbs back. I'm not worried though, as I've come to learn some things about myself since then. Everyone has their own natural pace and time frame. Also that I work best when I write my goals down. Wishful thinking is fun but never productive. You need to believe it AND see it to achieve it! Writing it down in your journal with your glitter pen is the SEEING it part. Your brain says "Oh, we are SERIOUS about this one I see. Groovy!" or something similar.

Your HappyWork (sounds more positive than homework) for today is start with that first wee baby step. Nothing too flashy or bright. Just that one phone call, or google search or email to start your goal in motion. Maybe it is to find more information on that art course you want to take or perhaps locating that perfect yoga mat for the gym. Whatever it is, however small, remember that they do add up. You WILL reach that goal and you WILL be smiling.

Until next time!

Linda

Inside the Box

2012-01-06T21:24:01Z

Howdy Gentle Reader,

Here we are at the end of the first week of 2012. How ya doing? Today's beverage selection includes lots-o-lattes - French Vanilla, Hazelnut Dream, and Creme Caramel. Or you can enjoy an espresso (for those who have A LOT of Tah-Dah-ing to do!), plus of course dark hot chocolate. Comfy cozy? Ok, now back to bizziness....

Are you a fan of boxes, containers, and baskets? Yeah me too. The dollar store is a beacon for people like us. So many choices for so little coinage!! Here's the tricky part (as the Big Fig Newton would say - 'member that commercial??), containers are only beneficial if you actually know what's in them. Sometimes I use mine like portable junk drawers. One houses a collage of assorted make-up samples, stamps, elastic bands, solo earrings, pens, and a plastic troll (uh-huh). Come to think of it, I have it on a prime shelf in the bathroom. While the box itself IS beautiful, I rarely look in it. I don't even use that make-up.

Same with a box of Christmas cards from holidays past, and a bunch of baskets with IT cords and old computer software (Win 3.1 anyone?!). To be honest, I don't think I'll ever use the tech items again but what if I need them???? Yeah that WHAT IF?!!

I'm a very visual person so while I like the idea of boxes stacked on a shelf, it's pretty much out of sight, out of mind for me. I currently have all of my paint tubes in baskets in the broom closet. They are organized by colour group which is great but because they are hidden away, I am not painting as often. Not good.

Clear baskets are fabulous for seeing items but also not great because you see the items! There are really two tasks here: 1) go through all your boxes, baskets, and containers to see what treasures are stored there and 2) decide what stays and what goes.

Even if you get through 2 boxes this weekend, that's fab progress! You might be able to consolidate all the items from two into one container after you decide which items are no longer of use to you. See - less IS more (please see yesterday's blog).

Until Monday, have a relaxing weekend and happy organizing!!

Linda

Up with Downsizing!

2012-01-05T21:57:27Z

Hiya Gentle Reader,

How's your year going? Yup, I still have a cold but I'm feeling much better each day. Hopefully I'll be 100% by the weekend. How about a nice cuppa this afternoon? I'm thinking Earl Grey and a gingerbread cookie too. Sugar is my pal.

You've heard the saying that "Less is More"? Well it applies to organizing too of course. The less items you have to maintain/insure/dust (eek), the more time and space you have for other things/activities. It took me a long time to be able to have actual room on a bookshelf and not want to cram an entire library in there. I used to be a huge fan of knick-knacks and little collectibles/figurines but when you have curious felines in your family, you tend to find many of these items misplaced or broken on a regular basis. Plus I find as I get older, I want/need/crave less. What is more important to me now is not tangible - love, life, experiences, etc. I've been very blessed in that area. *insert happy grin here*

So one of my mantras for 2012 is to make room just for the sake of well...making room. As I've mentioned in a previous blog, this is the year of big changes for me (yay!), I want to have room to grow too. About 12 years ago I discovered the simplicity movement http://www.simplelivingforum.net/ and read every book at the time on the subject. I love organizing (ok, I love the THOUGHT of organizing) and my favourite organizer out there is Hellen Buttigieg http://weorganizeu.com/ and you can purchase her wonderful book here
http://www.amazon.ca/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=Hellen+Buttigieg - I highly recommend it! She definitely walks the talk!

Earlier this week, I said that I wanted to go through my clothes closet and weed out those items that no longer make me happy. That's my #1 on my list right now. My TAH-DAH list!! I bought a bunch of hangers from the dollar store in anticipation (would you believe they are CHARTREUSE!!?!). That way I can keep my work clothes organized together and my casual clothes in my dresser - rather than having to go through my regular morning ritual of trying to figure out what to wear (unfortunately Stacey and Clinton aren't up that early!) If that company GARANIMALS ever made clothes for adults, I'd be the first to buy them. http://www.garanimals.com/ Clothes already matched for you. Bliss!

So let's decide to make more room in 2012 for our lives and goals. Yeah, I like it.

Until next time!

Linda

Hello NEW year!

2012-01-03T21:54:51Z

Hiya Gentle Reader,

Here we are celebrating day 3 of 2012. YAY for us! Pretty fine indeed I'd say. Ok, we have white hot chocolate, peppermint mocha, or Earl Grey tea ready in Fiesta mugs in the kitchen. Shortbread too. Yup. We got it all going on.

My holiday week was lovely despite politely asking my head cold to leave the planet. Persistent little thing. Soon I hope! Lots of family time in there too which I love and this included numerous movie marathons - bliss!

Today let's chat about your BLUE SKY DREAMS. You know the ones I am referring to - the goals that is all big and bright and shiny in January and then start to tarnish a bit by March. Everyone has at least one idea that they think about all the time. The drawing courses you're going to take at the art school, the baby albums you're going to organize for your sister (your nephew is now starting grade 1...), the clothes closet that is so stuffed that you can't possibly cram in another sweater (though you do try!), or those 15 extra lbs that seem to show up only when you want to wear THOSE pants to THAT event.

I have a couple of items on that list (yes MOI, the one that has the TAH-DAH list!!). I've been working on a photo book about kitty Jack since he was born in 2008. Yes, 3 years ago. The photos are all ready for me to select from AND I'm even going to use Blurb.com so you know it's easy-peasy for me to do yet still I hesitate. The other is my clothes closet. I have clothes in there that a) have never been worn, b) are out of fashion, c) are not the most flattering, or d) all of the above. Yup D! I keep telling myself that I need to make order and that I only want to keep clothing that I adore and feel great wearing. Seems simple enough rules but I haven't taken that baby step yet. I can't figure out why either *sips peppermint mocha and reflects*

So JANUARY (yessum THIS month) is the one to tackle those items first. Start with completing a long-time goal. The one that you have written on a post-it that moves from month to month (doesn't seem that bad when you're not actually crossing it out one week and writing it in again the next). The goal itself is usually quite small - ie. "organize vacation photos from the summer" - but seems more like "build a house on a mountain." Yeah, I'd-rather-be-napping kind of stuff.

Today I'd like to list at least one goal that you're going to accomplish this month. The task that will FINALLY be checked off your TAH-DAH list (BIG STANDING OVATION GOES HERE)!!!

Until next time Gentle Reader, keep smiling!

Linda

Days before the Year

2011-12-29T21:59:52Z

Howdy Gentle Reader,

Would you like a hot apple cider and a warm gingerbread biscotti? Snowy day here in MonkeyWorld. Very chilly too which explains why my layers have layers! The kitchen is always cozy though and there's always room for everyone.

There's something nice and lovely about those few days before the start of a new year. That "the skies the limit!" feeling when you decide what adventures you want to embark on in 2012. Oh and there's gonna be a lot this coming year. A lot, a lot!!!

My life has completely changed from 12 months ago. COMPLETELY. I still have my beloved Siamese feline duo, and endless passion for my art. My family and friends are amazing and their incredible support this past year was wonderful and appreciated. However, the biggest change came in the form of
L-O-V-E and something I have never ever experienced before - pure joy from falling in love with someone who makes you grin and laugh uncontrollably every single day. Tears running down your face laughing. We finish each other's sentence and can usually communicate with just a few words or a special glance. Someone who is beyond your bestfriend and partner. Yup. In that happy place and I am so grateful. Mucho gracias Universe!!

This year I am kicking it up a notch (you KNOW how much I enjoy doing that right?) and planning a Vision Board for 2012. I usually take my glitter pen (green of course) and write my goals in my new journal (rainbow coloured book this time - didn't want to pick just one!). This time I need more space to do...well...more!

We've chatted about Vision Boards before but here's a little reminder. You cut out pictures of things that make you smile and that you want to accomplish or acquire in the new year and then paste them on a board - 18"x24" is a good size - construction paper from the dollar store works well or even a canvas for painting. If you want to be healthier, you can tape up pictures of healthy people, nutritious foods, or perhaps write in the actual weight you want to be. If you want a new kitty in 2012, paste a photo of one on the board (or draw it - you talented Gentle Reader you!!) Continue adding things that make you excited and giddy. Writing the word BELIEVE could mean to never give up on hope and belief. A running shoe could represent that half-marathon you want to do in the summer or that you just love those particular Nikes and want to wear them! The more specific you are about your goals and dreams, the better it is! You'll see.

Tomorrow we'll discuss next steps.

Until then GR, have a fabulous evening and keep smiling!

Linda

Joy for 2012!

2011-12-22T16:50:48Z

Hello Gentle (and patient) Reader,

Whoa! When the monkey goes off the grid, she does so big time!

Just relaxing in the Diner now. Peppermint mocha anyone? *smiles* Thought so. The shortbreads will be ready in a minute. Please put up your feet. We're on quiet time here and everyone is welcomed.

Well this year has been quite the adventure! Incredible highs and lows. For every challenge there has been a equally wonderful outcome elsewhere to balance. Found beautiful true love in my personal world. Late bloomer but a happy one! Finally found someone who not only appreciates and loves me for me but encourages me to be my BEST me. Priceless! There's a first for everything in life. Now I want to live to be 100!!

SO as you can imagine, my goals for 2012 are pretty mega ones. Like a King-Kong-sized Tah-Dah list! (yay monkeys!).

The new year will be less equals more when it comes to things in my life. After a half century of living (yeah I admit it), you acquire all sorts of items. Twice in my life I have given all of my worldly possessions away to others but as time goes on, things have taken their place. I want to treasure 2012 and everything in it. Some other BIG adventures are on the list - more about those later! Why YES they DO involve cake...

So as we head into the last 10 days of the year, I want you to grab that glitter pen and well-loved journal (or snazzy notepad), and write down your top 3 "gotta be, gotta do, gotta love" items. For me it is learning a new language (I've started but want to be fluent), enroll in some more art courses, and start up an artsy brunch club (yup, you read that right - so pals can get caught up while enjoying French toast and lattes - calling it Project ABC). Most of my friends are comics, musicians, actors, and artists so they tend to work the same days/schedules. Thank goodness for FB to keep us connected. However, I know we all miss face-to-face time too. The new year will be about re-establishing connections.

Tomorrow we'll review your list. For today, take a deep breath and smile in knowing that 2012 will be YOUR most amazing year yet!

Linda

Now means Now.

2011-09-13T14:49:06Z

Good day Gentle Reader,

Hope your week is going very well so far. Sunny and warm here in the big city. Summer is taking her sweet time in leaving! Niiiiice.

Normally I don't chat about myself as much as I love to discuss YOU. However, this past week has been difficult because my dear childhood pal Kathy passed away from cancer. Always painful to lose a close friend but even more so when you've had a huge history together. She was the keeper of all my secrets and my sidekick in all my childhood adventures (since grade 1). We were a mini version of Lucy and Ethel. I will miss her tremendously.

So today is all about exactly that - TODAY. Being in the now. The present. Sure it can be tempting to put your projects on the backburner and take a break for a bit but it's always better to move forward each and every day. You can still take those baby steps but it's important to make them. Even a little progress each day will add up to a lot in just a few weeks.

It takes just 21 days to make or break a habit - that can be very good in turning those big dreams into even bigger realities! It's important to fantasize about how you will feel when you complete that project, write that book, or lose those 25 lbs (yay!) but the recipe really needs a mixture of action plus dreaming in order to equal success.

Your homework this week is to revisit some of those goals that you have written on those post-it notes and keep moving them week to week in your agenda book! I do the same thing so you're certainly not alone. However this time, we're going to write them in INK and assign specific deadlines. For today, acknowledge at least three and commit to finishing them by December 31, 2011.

I know you can do it!

Until next time, hug your loved ones a little tighter today.

Linda

When Sometimes becomes Always....

2011-09-08T17:35:46Z

Howdy Gentle Reader,

Another crisp day in the big city. Lovely weather though! This is my favourite time of year - the colours of the leaves (there will be LOTS of photos soon), the chilly breezes, and the "fresh start" feel of the season. I think of it as spring cleaning for the soul!

As we discussed yesterday, it's soooo easy to let discipline take a vacation during the summer. My "occasional" weekly sorbet treat suddenly became the daily norm. When the owners AND staff ALL know you by name at ye olde ice-cream shoppe, well you know it's more than a rarity that you're there. Including the cleaning lady!Yup true!

Same with my painting and photography. I am even lucky enough to have a studio in my home but it's also very easy to not see the obvious around you - blank canvas waiting for paint, boxes of art supplies staring at you from the shelves, etc.

So here I was happily enjoying my new sorbet habit and yet neglecting my usual painting routine that I love so much. It felt so good though - rewards for no work!

However, I'm all about loving the individual and never about guilt or criticism. There's enough negativity on the planet that you don't need to add more to your own personal world. Every day is the chance to start again and move in a more positive direction. I'm always about baby steps towards your goal. Appreciate the fun you had with the sorbet (or trips to the beach, buffet, or couch to watch tv!) and make changes to your life that will better enhance YOU!

Please take out your "ta-da" list (and that metallic glitter pen - oh I KNOW you have one), and I want you to add two NEW healthy habits to it. If you're like me and want your Fall clothes to fit a little looser (crazy that the humidity shrinks stuff over the summer eh??), write down that you'll take the stairs 50% of the time over the next 3 weeks and will walk for 25 minutes a day. I'm not suggesting drastic changes and certainly not going cold tofurkey (as we say in my family - Veganland!). Any shift that severe will not want to stay around for long.

Today give yourself a few extra hugs and enjoy a relaxing warm beverage as you write your "ta-da" list! I'm proud of you!

Linda

Back to the Basics!

2011-09-07T20:16:14Z

Hello Gentle Reader,

Did ya have a fun summer? Can you believe we're already into the cooler temps? Whoa! I have been wearing a jean jacket for days now. WTFall! Now who wants hot cocoa?

I always find that I am all over the map when it comes to the warmer months. My discipline tends to go on vacation in every area - health, diet, and goals! Soooo, here we are back at the front door of school. Time to put those shoes on again and start writing down plans in our journals. School supplies are on sale all over the place which is great since you can pick up some colourful notebooks and pens at affordable prices. Even the dollar store has lots of sparkley items! You KNOW how much I love me some glitter!

This season, my focus is on my home and my art. I am very grateful for having a fabulous person in my life who is incredibly supportive of me and my creativity. You really can accomplish a lot when you feel there is someone on your team rooting for you.

I'm like most people and have that never-ending list of errands that seems to follow me around like paparazzi! I always feel better when I get to check off each item, no matter how big or small the task. Some tasks are solo and others appear to have the Von Trapp family in tow (that's kind of like the Gosselins to you younger folk!)

As we've chatted about before, I call the list my "TA-DA!" list. Makes it more exciting and fun!

So the homework for this week (let's call it YOUwork) is to take inventory of the projects that have gone astray over the last few months and herd them back to our journals and writing pads. I like the pen to paper approach best. Makes it more personal. Something about writing items down makes them more real and reachable too. Oh yeah, and you have to use at least 3 different colours in your list. What can I say, I'm an artist. That's how I roll!

Until next time Gentle Reader. Keep smiling.

Linda

Writing in Ink

2011-07-13T19:44:36Z

Howdy Hey Gentle Reader,

FINALLY we have lovely summer weather in the big city. Lots of rain in there too with a few big storms. Still it is DIVINE for enjoying time outdoors!

You know, I am a huge believer of writing things in ink in my calendar - yessss I kick it up old school with paper rather than everything electronic. Have always had a love affair with journals and rainbow inks! Never met a journal I didn't love at first sight!

Don't even get me started on an e-reader. Just.walk.away.

There is something though about writing things down and not using pencil. I mean how committed does one have to be when you can always erase the goal? Not much, I'm afraid. However INK says I"m in it for the journey and not afraid to look back!! (ok, using white-out CAN hide ink but it's not as foolproof as an eraser and you always know that you're hiding something - symbolic no? Your Honour, I rest my case...)

Writing in ink makes you feel like you're signing a contract with yourself and baybeh, doesn't it feel FAB-U-LOUS when you check something off on your Ta-Da list? That's the best reward!

I like keeping my journals with the items checked off. A herstory of sorts that lets me re-live all the adventures AND inspires me to go on more.

You can get some great pens and notebooks/journals at your local dollar store. Doesn't need to be fancy BUT it should be fun! The brighter/louder/wilder, the better!

Your goals must sparkle like YOU do!

Until next time...

Linda

Kicking it up a Notch!

2011-05-17T15:47:00Z

Hey there Gentle Reader,

Got Sun? Yeah not much here either. Though we DO have a lot of rain. A lot, a lot. Still the flowers are smiling! One can always dream of warmer days....

Lately, I am finding that I am not embracing my "ta-da" list as I usually do. Maybe it is weather-related but more likely I have become a wee bit too comfortable in the "dreaming" stage. Visualizing about your life is fabulous but only if it's connected to activity - taking those baby steps forward to achieving whatever adventure you want to pursue!

So I am giving myself a shake (not chocolate mind you - this monkey is on a health plan now!) and getting out those sparkly gel pens. Journal Intervention 101. Always good to review your previous thoughts and plans with the goal to move to the next level. Ya know, kicking it up a notch!

Blue-sky thinking is always fun but without action, well those wishes will just fade like fluffy clouds. You need to get those amazing ideas out THERE (you know, into the Universe!) Plus every time you accomplish something on your list that YOU want to do, it gives you more energy to finish more things. The energy (synergy actually - when a combination of ideas is bigger than individual ones) is very powerful! Time to use it for the greater good to make your life the happiest it can be.

Your homework (yup) is to take out your journal (or a piece of paper - always better written down than typed - you'll be more connected to your words), and write down 3 new items on your list.

We'll chat soon about YOU!

Linda

Mo' of mo'

2011-05-09T20:23:00Z

Hiya Gentle Reader,

FABULOUS sunshine in the big city today - warmer temps too! Was getting a wee bit concerned since our winter seemed endless and brrrr - Canada Classic though I would have preferred Canada Lite! Ok, who wants lemonade? Yeah, me too.

I hope you have been working on your Blue Sky list this Spring - ya know, when you write down your dreams and desires and believe that EVERYTHING is possible, achievable, and obtainable! Sometimes when we're having fun with the list, we can feel we are asking for too much of the good stuff. Not true, GR, not true.

You can ask for more of more!

Here's the thing - you are entitled to be happy with your life and you do deserve everything that this joy can bring.

The key is being very grateful for all you have in your life today and what you will have in your world in the future.

We can lose focus when take things for granted. Life is ever-changing and that's really the only thing we can count on! Change.

So I've got a plan. How about if we spend the rest of the week just adding to the list each day. No revising - just writing as much as you'd like that would make your heart sing.

That should do it!

We'll chat soon. Mo' lemonade?

Linda

Got Joy?

2011-04-11T18:08:00Z

Hello Gentle Reader,

Happy Monkey in da house! Who wants a latte? Butterscotch scone? Please relax and put your feet up! Are we good now? Yeah, we're good.

Since early 2009, I've been on a lovely journey seeking happiness. Oh, I wanted a sunnier life before that time but two years ago, I announced to the Universe AND myself that I was going to find that blissful place (other than Disneyworld of course!). I'm at an age *mumble mumble cough* and decided it was time to finally ask for and embrace true love and passion in all areas of life!

So many of us accept the status quo even if it isn't what we want. Canadians aren't big boat-rockers (so to speak!) and tend to play with the cards they are dealt.

Well I am here to say no more!!!

2011 is the YEAR OF JOY. My OWN Monkey Zodiac!

No more settling for second best, the "other" less than satisfactory option, or the life that doesn't serve you or your dreams. I know that is easier said than done BUT now is the time to start requesting JOY from the Universe's menu. Anyone can ask for it. The supply is endless!

So your homework, yesssss homework, I would like you to write down 3 different scenarios for selecting JOY. In one column, write "current" situation and then in the second column, write down your happy scenario! Could be about your job, your home, your relationship, or even yourself (note from me to you, this is my fave one). I think it might be quite eye-opening!

Until we meet up again!

Linda

Supersized Dreams

2011-03-23T18:51:00Z

Hello Gentle Reader,

Greetings from Blizzard Central - seriously! Woke up to a beautiful winter wonderland. Major snow falling now. Crazy wild. Had to unpack my monkey hat again. I kind of missed it so that was good. Latte and sugar cookies? Seems fitting since it looks like Christmas out there!

I admit that being a Leo (and me telling you that I am a Leo is a Leo thing to do!) I tend to have some pretty "out there" dreams. I figure what's wrong with wanting it all? I used to be someone who settled in life - all the time. Supported the dreams of others but not my own so much.

2011 is my year to support myself as well as I do others! I have been painting but my photography has been in hibernation. Beyond the kitten photos, there hasn't been much activity with my camera at all. I was going to say "now that SPRING is here...." *looks out window at blowing snow and wind* I'm on it though. Last year I did an artsy trade with about 14 small paintings and it was fun! This year I will use photographs instead. Great getting art out into the universe and receiving treasures back in return.

The beauty of writing your dreams down on paper (and it's the only way you can anchor them into reality) is that one will inspire another. That "blue sky" thinking again that we've chatted about before. LOVE.IT. Nothing is too outrageous (remember LEO here!). It's fun when there are no boundaries or rules restricting your happiness. It should be the JOY LAW!

Until next time, keep smiling and SUPERSIZE your dreams!

Linda